by cheetahdesign | Jul 14, 2026 | Anger Management, Bullying, Communication, Current Events
It’s a hot conversation right now, one that seems silly to need to address, but here we are regardless. How do we teach boys to be respectful of girls, and whose job is it? There’s a version of this conversation that centers on rules: don’t speak to girls...
by Bonnie Harris | Mar 12, 2026 | Anger Management
There is a common question that we get in our work in Connective Parenting all the time. “Can Connective Parenting work with difficult or aggressive kids?” Parents of kids who hit, explode, shut down, or cycle through meltdowns on a daily basis often arrive at...
by Bonnie Harris | Sep 23, 2025 | Anger Management, Empathy, Everyday Parenting, Generational Trauma, tantrums, Teens
You know that moment: your child shouts “No!” or bursts into tears over something small, and suddenly you feel a rush of heat in your chest. Your voice gets sharper, your patience evaporates, and before you know it, you’re reacting in a way that surprises even you....
by Bonnie Harris | Sep 5, 2025 | Anger Management, Anxiety, Bullying, Communication, Confident Parents, education, Empathy, Everyday living, Everyday Parenting, Mental Health, Newsletter, Teens
If you’ve ever sat across from your middle schooler, bewildered by their mood swings, sharp comments, or sudden silence, you are not alone. Most parents, myself included, describe these years as some of the most challenging in raising children. And most kids, if you...
by Bonnie Harris | Jul 7, 2025 | Anger Management, Anxiety, Coaching & Counseling, Communication, Confident Parents, Empathy, Everyday living, Everyday Parenting, Expectations, Generational Trauma, Mental Health, Teens
A brief excerpt from “The Letter Your Teenager Can’t Write You” by Gretchen Schmelzer, originally posted on June 23, 2015: Dear Parent: This is the letter I wish I could write. This fight we are in right now. I need it. I need this fight. I can’t...
by Bonnie Harris | Apr 23, 2025 | Anger Management, Bullying, Communication, Everyday Parenting, Generational Trauma, Mental Health, Teens
Raising boys in today’s world can feel overwhelming. Parents want their sons to be strong, kind, and successful. But sometimes, without realizing it, we pass down messages that can hurt more than help. Fear, shame, blame, and aggression have been used for generations...
